Signs of a cheating spouse

Matt returns home after a hectic session of work at the office, walks past Jessica, his wife who is found sitting down reading a magazine over a cup of tea, she gives him a suspicious look hiding her face behind the magazine. She asks Matt, Honey why do I find you working over time the past couple of weeks , Matt returns a blunt answer saying there was too much work , and she keeps throwing in questions after questions like , why is your shirt untidy and , why don’t you answer my calls and more questions of this sort . Till mike blasts out asking her to stop.

Asking questions can be the very first step to this experiment , try asking your spouse a few inquisitive questions , make sure you do not push it too far though, watch closely to expect blunt answers and hesitant ones too , At some point he /she will cut lose out of anger not finding a way to defend those series of questions. At times a spouse that cheats thinks that there is absolutely no way that his wife or her husband would notice the changes in behavior. Actually they do!

What do you notice about your spouse that makes you think that he/she is cheating?
Blunt answers and clumsiness around, this is what make a person suspect foul play.
Try reaching out or having a look at your spouse’s mobile phone when he/she is around you, what you will notice is a sudden and weird reaction from your spouse.
They tend to keep things and words within themselves , you moreover notice that your spouse doesn’t really have much to talk about when you ask him/her how her day at office was , nor do they voluntarily come over to have chat with you over their evening’s cup of coffee.

There is no proper communication between the two of you, he/she is obvious to act clumsy and careless when you are around. If you have the feeling of being left out at a party or a wedding that he/she attends secretly knowing that you were also invited, then there could be strong essence of cheating. How often does he make moves by himself in bed? If you find him not interested or too lazy and tired, here again we have another point to prove him or her guilty.

You’ll notice an unusual gap or a distance that gradually builds over the course of time, her / she doesn’t let you step into her personal issues, keeps a lot of secrets and doesn’t share many a problem wit you like before . He or she may not spend time with their kids which is unusual. Most of ally our spouse reacts unusually or carelessly when a few questions are surprisingly posed on to them, confusion is another big criterion on which he can be judged guilty.

Never approach your spouse in a way that you make it too obvious that you’re spying­­ or stalking them as that could lead to some unexpected problems that can trigger off changes in lots of other activity like trust and faith. Keep a calm mind an approach positively and look for symptoms. Do not miss- judge and come to conclusions hastily, take time to act and then wisely make your moves.