Friday, September 25, 2009

Infidelity

Infidelity may or may not be in context with sexual activity, in short it is the breach of trust and unfaithfulness of a partner to the other, be it lover or a married couple. In most cases the spouse or partner takes such a step if he/she is bored of being with the same person, needs someone else in bed, not happy with the partner in life, he or she may not have time for the other, so they tend to take a turn into the immediate opportunity they come across and grab it.

The fact about it is most of them are left unknown about this, sexual infidelity in a married couple is termed as adultery, the root cause of this is the minds of both of them, if the relationship is bound with a strong understanding about each other , there are less chances of such activity with that couple , Infidelity can also be non sexual in nature , like a certain affection to another person , this is merely about the trust factor, so lying , talking ill about the other partner behind him/her can also come under this category.

How do you know that your partner can likely be cheating or be bound to it?

If you can notice a strong change in behavior while he/she is around and not the same like he/she usually is, there is gap between the personal activity that slowly starts getting wider. Constantly lying to you when it has anything to do with another person , be it a friend or a colleague . A secret friend can sometimes be the driving power if left unchecked by the partner. He/she moves around with a particular person quite often , talks are relates more closely to that person .


What can you do about it?

Well the most important and something you should always follow is to keep your partner always in your company, talk to them more often , do not suspect or be insecure by making it too obvious to them , moreover treat them the best. Letting them astray will let them find other sources , always try spending as much time possible with your partner , because that is what they seek.

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